Raising Children Beyond Shouts: A Call to Responsible Parenting

It is often said that marriage does not automatically make one a parent. The truth of this statement is reflected in the rising number of couples who lack the knowledge and wisdom needed to raise children. Studies and observations suggest that nearly 70% of married couples do not understand what proper parenting entails. Sadly, their approach is reduced to shouting, scolding, or even intimidation—methods that do not build character but instead breed resentment and fear.

Parenting is a sacred responsibility. Children are not empty vessels to be filled with anger, but tender souls that must be nurtured with patience, love, and understanding. Every child has a unique personality and temperament. Parents who fail to study and understand their children miss the key to effective guidance. A father or mother who knows when to correct, when to encourage, and when to simply listen will achieve more than one who only shouts.

Society’s future rests heavily on the home. The values instilled—or neglected—within the family eventually manifest in the community. A well-trained child grows into a responsible adult, contributing positively to society. On the other hand, a child raised without care, love, or proper direction may become a burden not just to the family but to the larger society.

It is time couples took parenting as seriously as marriage itself. Reading about child development, seeking counsel from experienced parents, attending seminars, and above all, being intentional in raising children should be part of every family’s culture. Discipline should not be confused with shouting or anger. True discipline is rooted in love, consistency, and the example parents set through their own lives.

If we want a society free of crime, immorality, and broken character, the work must begin at home. Let parents rise to the challenge of training their children properly. A well-trained child is not only a blessing to the family but also a pillar of hope to the nation.